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Friday, November 13, 2009

Once, a man out of his yard, walking aimlessly in despair. He was unemployed for a long time. Financial condition messy family. While busy neighbors filled the house with luxury goods, he is still struggling to figure out how to meet basic needs of food and clothing their families.

Her children had not been bought clothes, his wife often angry at not being able to buy goods worth households. The man was bursting with this condition, and he was not convinced that the trip times the program will bring good fortune, the find a job.

When the man down the street was deserted, a sudden leg
bump something. Because he was curious bent and picked it up.
"Uh, just an ancient coin that was dented," he grumbled disappointed. Even so he took the coin to a bank.

"We recommend that you take the coin in it to the collector of ancient money," said the teller advised. The man followed the advice Itupun the teller, bringing the coin kekolektor. Fortunately, the collectors value coins worth 30 dollars.

So much, he began to think what would he do with this windfall. When passing a hardware store, he saw several pieces of wood on sale. He could make some shelves for his wife because his wife had said they had no place to store pots and jars. After buying 30 dollars worth of timber, the timber he was carrying and headed home.

Along the way he passed the shop of a furniture maker. Eyes
garage owner has been trained to see the wood he carried.
The wood is beautiful, good color, and renowned quality. Incidentally at that time there was an order furniture. He offered to pay some 100 dollars to him.
Looked in doubt in the eyes of man, but was assured and artisans can offer a ready-made furniture to choose him. Incidentally there was a wardrobe that would like his wife. She traded timber and borrow a cart to carry the cabinet. He was soon brought him home.

Along the way he passed a new housing. A woman who was decorating her new house looked out the window and saw the man pushing a cart containing a beautiful cabinet. The women lured and offered at a price of 200 dollars. When he appeared in doubt, the woman raised her offer to be 250 dollars. Man Itupun agree. Then return the cart to the craftsmen and went home.

In the village the door he paused for a moment and wanted to make sure the money he received. He reached into his pocket and counted the sheets worth 250 dollars. At that moment a robber out of the bushes, brandishing knives, seized the money, then fled.

The man's wife happened to look and ran toward him and said, "What happened? You're fine right? What was taken by the robbers? "

The man shrugged and said, "Oh, it's nothing. Only a dented coin that I found this morning ".

When we realized we never had any, why should drown in excessive pain?

The following story, adapted from the work of The Healing Stories Burns GW.

A pair of Sports Shoes


Being "equal and similar" with other teens is the desire of all
adolescents.

I remember well how as a teenager in 1963 I
feel should have the latest sports shoes that are "in".

The problem, last month I've just bought a pair of leather shoes.

But, really sports shoes in fashion, so I came
the father asked for help.

"I need a little money for sports shoes", I said one evening in
garage where my father worked as a mechanic.

"Willie" father seemed surprised.

"New shoes a month old, but Why do you need the shoes now
new? "

"Every person wearing sneakers yah!"

"It may be a son, but it is not easy to make dad
pay for sports shoes "

Salaries small father and often not enough to meet the daily needs
day.

"Daddy, I look like a dorky wearing shoes of this type" I said,
refers to the new oxford shoes.

Dad looked in in the eye.

Then he replied, "Look, you wear these shoes one day
lagi.Besok, at school, notice all the shoes from your friends. If
after school you still believe that the most worn shoes
shoes than your pal friend, the father will cut your mother and spending money
buy a pair of sports shoes "

I am happy to go to school, the next morning, full of confidence
that day was my last day of oxford shoes are mamakai
This outdated.

I do what I tell my father did, but not, I
tell me what I look carefully.

Brown shoes, black shoes, tennis shoes worn, all the
center of attention.

In the evening, I have the vocabulary in my memory of how
many friends at school who also was not wearing sports shoes,
even shoes - shoes broken, perforated, and other open another form
nearing extinction as a means of protecting the foot.

But many also wore a handsome sports shoes, which always
stylish seconds ticking when the owner proudly menghentakkannya
powerful.

After school ended, I walked quickly to the garage where my father worked.
I am almost sure that next Monday I will go to groups that
are "in"

Every time I stamped my heel on the road, I imagine, have been
sports shoes my dream.

Workshop was very quiet. The voice that sounded just the clink-clink
metal from under an old chevy made in 1956.

The air smelled of oil, but the smell seems to me, great.

Only one customer was waiting for my father who was struggling in the under
old chevy.

"Mr. Alva" I asked the customer who is waiting, "still
long? "

"I do not know Will. You know the nature of your father. He was unpacking gear, but
when he got the other part is wrong, he will
finish well. "

I leaned on the gray car.

What can I saw was a pair of legs sticking out dad
from under the car.

With a flick larvae chevy taillights, unconsciously I
at the foot of the father.

Work trousers navy blue, dull and sticky hit by oil, shabby
too.

Shoes, old white .... ah .... not a young black ... ..., and it
really crappy, as is the shoe of a mechanic.

Shoes are not left platform, and the right still has a piece
small thin skin, which formerly named sol. In the end, a row of staples
both bit tight skin tight, preventing her toes
peeked out. Beriap riap shoelaces, and a hole
shows some of her little finger bandaged cotton shirt.

"It's home son? "Father out from under the car.

"Yes sir" I said.

"You do what I tell you today?"

"Yes sir"

"Well, what do you say?" She looked at me, as if he knew what would I
say.

"I still like sports shoes" I said firmly, and tried a half
dead to not look at the father's shoes.

"Then, my father had to cut your mother's shopping money ... .."

"Why not go and buy it now?" And the father pulled out
a $ 10. and fishing for coins to pay 30 cents
3% sales tax.

I took the money and immediately went to the mall, two blocks
from the garage where my father worked.

In front of a window, I stopped to see if the shoe sportku
still on display there. Still! $ 9.95.

But my money would not be enough if I have to buy nail nails will
nailed to the soles and the click clack noise handsome.

I think, to run to the house and asked for funding from mama, because
not be returned to his father and asked for its shortcomings.

By the time I thought of my father, his old shoes seem to imagine
across both eyes.

Kebututannya obviously, the ragged side camping, nails nails
has peeked out and a line of staples commonly used to
pinch of paper.

Worn leather shoes he wore to his family.

At the time the biting winter, wearing the same shoes
through the cold streets, toward the car that had stalled the car.

But my father never complained.

It occurred to me, how many items it should be required
father, but does not have, only my eyes to get what
my desire.

And luxury sneakers behind glass in front etelase
began to fade.

What would it be fathers like me.

What kind of shoes are now worn, when my father acted like I
be.

I went into the shoe store.

A large rack plastered magnificent, full of sports shoes that contain it
cool.

Beside him, there is a different shelf, with sebingkai writing "on sale
big. 50% discount ".

Under the frame lying semodel shoes shoes shoes father, a
younger generation, of course.

My mind is playing ping pong. At first father battered shoes.

And now the new shoes. Thoughts about: the "ins" and in step with
other teenagers at school.

And then the thought of my father, .... has been defeated.

I take size 42 shoes from the shelves berdiscount.

Immediately walked toward the counter, plus tax, be the number
$ 6.13.

I returned to the garage and putting new shoes on the chair's father in
car.

I get the father and return the remaining change.

"I think the price is $ 9.95" said the father.

"Sale" I said curtly.

I grabbed a broom, and began helping his father clean the garage.

At five o'clock, he signaled that the garage should be closed and we had to
home.

Daddy held a shoe box when we got in the car.

When he opened the box, he could only look without saying
word.

He looked at the shoes for long, then to me.

"I think you buy sports shoes", he said quietly.

"Actually my father, ... but .... I was unable to continue.

How should I explain that I really wanted to be
like father?

And when I grow up, I really wanted to be like
These good people, which God gave to me as my father.

Dad put his hand on my shoulder, and we looked at each other for
moment.

There are no words to say the word. Dad started the car, and we
home.

Thank God, because you have given me a good father and
responsible.

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Also motivation fate determinants

In ancient times there was a general of ancient China who have
duty to lead the troops against an enemy whose numbers ten times
more. Hearing condition unequal enemy, the soldiers
unperturbed case will suffer defeat.
On the way into battle, General was stopped at an altar
monastery. He was praying and praying for guidance of the gods. While
soldiers waiting outside the monastery with anticipation. Soon
later, the General out of the monastery.

He shouted at the troops, "We have received instructions from the
the sky. "Then he pulled out a gold coin from his pocket royal symbols. While
holding the coin into the air, he said, "Now, we see what the
fate. Let us hold a toss. When the head appeared, then we will
win. But when the tail comes up, we will lose. Our lives depend
to fate. "
Gen. then tossed the gold coin into the air. Gold coin spinning
in the air. Then tumbling on the ground. The whole army watch
what emerges. After a long rolled around, the coin
stopped. And what emerges is HEAD. Cash entire army shout
fun. "Hooray ..! We will win. Fate on our side, Let's Assault
and destroy the enemy. The victory was certain. "
General eagerly and troops moved into battle.
Fierce battle with. It turned out that with confidence and determination
which eventually become strong enemy countless defeated.
Generals and the troops really happy. A soldier said,
"It's the will of heaven, then no one can change destiny."
Arriving in the capital they were greeted by the whole population festive. King
amazed to hear stories that dashyat war. He asked
in the general how he was able to rekindle the spirit of his troops until
so brave. The General then handed his gold coins in
King, saying, "Your Majesty, this is what gives them good luck."
King received a gold coin and observing that both sides were
Picture: HEAD ..!

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Positive Thinking, Negative Thinking, & Right Thinking

"Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment." ~ Lao Tzu

We provide in-house company Traning in pulp and paper producer's second-largest in the world, based in Kerinci, Riau, recently, a participant who asked. "Sir, what is the basis for determining which in positive thinking and what is in negative thinking?"

Honestly, I was quite surprised to get a question like this. Not because I do not know the answer. However, this was the first time I have to think deeply about the essence of positive thinking and negative thinking. So far, we always believed and believe that positive thinking is the thought that "positive" and "beneficial" for us. While the negative thinking negative thoughts and self harm us. We agrees this is because of this that we learn from a variety of popular public speaker, book self-improvement books, and from a variety of seminars or workshops.

After a pause to think my last answer as I write the above paragraph: "Positive thinking is a useful thoughts while negative thoughts are thoughts of self harm us".

My answer seemed to be true. But I realized that the answer I gave was incomplete. There is encouragement in my heart to deepen my analysis of the answers I give.

At night, while alone in a hotel room, I sat down and thought about the deep questions of participants this afternoon, "What are the basis for determining which in positive thinking and what is in negative thinking?"

As I ponder this question I immediately thought of the many events that I have experienced in my life. I've also been practicing positive thinking. My friends too. I am reminded of an article I wrote titled "Danger Positive Thinking" which had become controversial.

It turned out that positive thinking alone is not enough to be successful. Positive thinking and negative thinking is still influenced by the perception and keterbatassan our own mindset. What we believe to be something positive was not necessarily positive. Could be, we feel or believe these positive thoughts because, based on the assumption or the wrong paradigm, which is still influenced by our belief system, which we believe to be true. So we feel have a positive thinking or positive thinking. And not necessarily what we do is positive thinking.

We must move from negative thinking into positive thinking and finally reach right thinking. Why right thinking? Right thinking is knowing who our true self, what our destiny is the highest, what our life's mission in this world, and aligning himself with the eternal laws that govern the universe. Right thinking also means that we think in terms of the Truth and the basis of all thought processes and other levels.

Right thinking comes from the awareness of the truth or from the actual reality of every situation we face. Right thinking enables us to see things as they are, regardless of the emotions that we be neutral.

Maybe get here you feel confused? Ok, I give you an example. For example there are those who insult us. What do we do? If negative thinking we would be furious. The more our emotions raged the more negative we become. Emotions are triggered by negative thinking is like the gasoline that poured into the flames. We blame the people who have insulted us. Anyway, this person is wrong, period.

We, usually, will try to overcome this by using positive thinking. What do we do? We try to think positive, trying to forgive, try to understand, to reframing, trying to control our emotions, trying to find positive things from this incident.

What about the right thinking? With the right thinking we seek the truth of what we experience. We must go beyond our belief system to be able to use the right thinking. Ask yourself, "What truth is contained in this incident?"

When we get a response from our consciences and our actions based on the answers we get it at that time we have used the right thinking.

Right thinking means that we realize fully that we are not our thoughts. We are moving our minds. We create the reality of our lives. We are responsible for everything that we experience, it is good or bad.

When someone insults us, whether it was true that "we" are insulted? Try to ask ourselves honestly. "Actually, who's been insulted? Is it true I insulted? Which part of me that feels insulted?"

If we use thinking right then we realized that we really do not be insulted. No one can insult us. What actually happens is that we have given meaning to the event, based on assumptions, perceptions, experiences living in the past, belief system, and our values, which resulted in the emergence of negative emotions. Eleanor Roosevelt with a very wise man said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

OK, you might say, "Lha, but we're still offended by the insult." If you still insist with this opinion, fine, let me ask you one question to you, "Who is offended or feels insulted? Me? I? I'm the one? Which part of me is offended?"

If we are honest then the actual "hit" is how we feel. The next question is, "Are we the same feelings with us? Are our feelings is ourselves?" Of course not. Feelings, the same as the mind, will always arise and sink, not eternal, and certainly not ourselves. []

Source: Positive Thinking, Negative Thinking, & Right Thinking by Adi W. Gunawan, better known as the Re-Educator and Mind Navigator, is a public speaker and trainer who has spoken in various major cities in and outside the country.

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Work Hard, Until When?


Technology makes all the people I know work harder and longer. - Wareen Bennis

"What is the meaning of hard work for you?" I asked some friends. "Hard work means coming to work most mornings and go home most nights, but remain healthy and optimistic" Didi said the businessman. "Work that relies on self power, especially the physical, to achieve a goal or desired outcome," said Elly college lecturer. "The hard work is required to achieve maximum results," said the soldier Wawan. "The way the work which must pass before people are able to work with smart and creative. People can not find intelligent ways if he had never worked hard," explained the Court employees.

***

Have you ever counted how many hours is usually the time you have used to work for a living to live in a week? The answer may vary, depending on the type of job or profession that you run. Try to imagine the following professions: lawyers, doctors, notaries, pilots, judges, prosecutors, farmers, traders, managers / ekskutif, consultants, advertising models, actors and soap operas. Which among those who think you work hard to support most of his life? What about the private employees and civil servants in general? Who hours on average per week the longest? What about school teachers, factory workers, porters, and workers at the centers of modern spending on their way home after 9 pm? Which is the most sweat?

There is the assumption that people who have to work more than 45 hours per week is the blue-collar workers who had learned. They work long hours, and work processes rely more on physical skills / muscles, so that all minimum wages. They are educated, professionals and the leading university graduate who became managers at a young age, are people who should have a short working time of being able to work smarter. Especially with the development of information technology is very impressive in the last decade, the group learned that the brain works is assumed to rely on working time would require a relatively minimum, less than 40 hours per week. Because, not people who are smart with the latest technological devices should not have to work hard as their ancestors (and our) first?

The problem is, our lives at school and then watch another reality. As BusinessWeek reported last October 2005 issue, in the American context of the "slave labor" was pretty amazing. More than 31% of workers male college graduates in the United States commonly work 50 hours or more a week in office, up from 22% in 1980, when information technology has not advanced as today. National Sleep Foundation reported that approximately 40% of American adults sleep less than 7 hours on weekdays. And since the 1926 Henry Ford had pioneered work five days a week, and since 1970 in the United States applies work time 40 hours a week. Then how to explain the tendency of educated American workers today who actually spent time working as factory workers in the 19th century, the average work 60 hours per week?

American workers are not alone. In China, the senior managers with U.S. $ 2000 income --- the exchange rate USD 9500, - means USD 19 million a month --- generally work 6O hours, six days a week. Although approximately 20 hours including overtime counted, but they do not get the additional wages of the extra work. Generally, hard workers were admitted had no choice but to stay late and thought it was it was their duty, so do not need to pay extra. Mentioned that at least three cities in China, 51% of people who work overtime during the day did not receive additional wages --- a thing that does not happen to their counterparts in Japan and South Korea. In the case in China's Labor Law has set hours of work 44 hours a week, within five working days, with two weeks annual leave, regular holidays, and overtime wage of at least one-half times the normal wage. The fact that such rules could not stem the growth of the "slave labor" in the country bamboo curtain. Only civil servants, such as school teachers, who spent 40 hours a week working with earnings of about U.S. $ 200 a month.

Another thing that is also interesting to be listened to is a report on the number of hours working woman in America and Europe are represented by 15 European Union countries. In 1984, the United States approximately 58% of women who spent a career working for more than 40 hours a week. The numbers increased in 2004 to around 62%. While in Europe, only about 36% of women who spent a career working in over 40 hours a week, in 1984. And in 2004 the number dropped to about 29%. Does that mean a career woman in America to work harder these days, while their counterparts in Europe have more time for other things outside of work? There was no further explanation about this. What is clear, in an interview, an intelligent American woman and phenomenal Oprah Winfrey once claimed that he used to work 14-15 hours a day, and if the only work 12 hours a day, he felt that something was missing that day.

Exposure data mentioned above shows that the assumption is not correct to say that only people who do not title and ***** are required to work hard to provide for his life. In fact, the most educated people in advanced countries like America, as well as those living in developing countries like China, just keep working hard to support her life. The assumption that with the advancement of information technology workers will be more relaxed in their work should also be sued again. Because in fact the most literate undergraduate and master the latest information technology alone does not work more relaxed than those who are relatively blind information technology.

So, work hard in the sense of work longer than the current work rules formally --- eg, five working days, 40 hours a week --- with the ability themselves to meet the needs and desires of everyday life, seems to have a tendency dammed difficult. More and more workers feel that's how it should be, especially when they want a career and a better life. The hard work seemed to be the only way. This is certainly not too need to question if we have jobs we enjoy, working in accordance with the best talent and our potential, and the work that gives the best results, both to us and to the community and the environment in which we serve. Like Oprah Winfrey who found the "place" is unique in this world, he might do his job without feeling the "worked".

The problem is, what if the work we have today is not the job we want? How about the work we have today is a job that does not fit with the talent and potential of our best? What if our current job is a job that does not foster a sense of pride in ourselves? What if our work is tekuni current job does not promise a better future? Of the last four questions I will answer with a question: how long you are willing to work hard for the type of work that bad?

Tabik Mahardika!

Source: Work Hard, Until When? by Andrias Harefa.

When the Emperor Reign With Mercy

First year of Zhenguan, Emperor Tang Taizong told the head
personnel kingdom, "Life of women in the court environment is very
concern. At the end of the Sui Dynasty, the royal palace too much
recruit women. Many of them live in the city
outer ring of the palace, where the emperor rarely visited; case where only
waste of money and energy. I do not like this situation. A
they do is clean the house. What else can they
do? Let them go home and get married. We can
save money and people will be happier and have a
his personal life. "After that, the royal palace sent home
more than 3,000 women.

Second year of Zhenguan, China
Undergoing a period of drought followed by severe famine.
Emperor Tang Taizong told his ministers, "The weather is
extreme is the result of the lack of De (virtue, manners) in
myself, I do not rule based on virtue.

Hence we are punished. What mistakes people have done so to accept this suffering? I heard people had sold her son for money. I feel so sad! "The Emperor then sent a minister Du Yan to investigate the drought-stricken areas. Minister Du Yan bought back these children with the Emperor's private money and return it to the parents of each.

In the seventh year of government Zhenguan, Xiangzhou Area Governor Zhang Gongjin died. The Emperor was very sad and he mourn some
times to express his feelings. Some officials send a note
to Caesar: "The book of Huai Yin-Yang said that someone
should not cry when mourning for bringing
misfortune. "Emperor Taizong replied," My relationship with
ministers like father and son. I feel sad from the heart.
How could I not cry? "After that, the Emperor began to cry again.

In the year to 19 era Zhenguan, Emperor Taizong himself led his troops
to beat Korea. When resting in Ding Zhou, several
soldiers stopped. Emperor Taizong was met with soldiers in
North Gate. One of them sick and can not follow
forces. Emperor Taizong invited him to rest on the side where
bed and asked where he was wounded. He also asked the physician in
Ding Zhou to treat the sick soldiers.

Because of compassion, all the generals and soldiers are willing to follow
war. On the way home, Taizong ordered his army
to provide a memorial to the bones of soldiers who
death, where they sacrificed animals buffalo, sheep and pigs. Emperor
himself came to the ceremony and tears. All military personnel
moved up to share tears.

After the ceremony, the parents of a fallen soldier said, "the Emperor cried at the funeral of our son. Now they can rest in peace. "When the army attacked the city of Emperor Taizong Baiyan in eastern Liaoning Province, General Li Simo got injured arrows. The emperor himself sucking wound General Li to throw out the death of blood. All the soldiers are very impressed.

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Bird fable Pung

"In the North China Sea," the beginning of this legend, "said
there is a fish called Kun which reach thousands of feet in length.
This giant fish
This can be transformed into a bird named seeokr Pung,
which also has thousands of meters long. When the flaps its wings
across the sky, the wings spread out like a cloud of
covering the sky. Flying back across the sky across the ocean:
toward the South Pole

"Pung giant flying into the South Sea, moving water with
extraordinary wings throughout the three thousand miles, but more
once he had to play the wind into a tornado until it reaches
height of ninety thousand miles.
It took six months to reach the height they will; only if
the bird is ready. Now, only the vast expanse of sky blue nan in
behind and not a single barrier in front of him, could Pung
fly to south freely.
How someone can compare the splendor of such a
morning mist, dust, and the creatures do not mean?

"If the water is shallow, would not be able to accommodate a ship
large, but pour water in a cup at a place that
shallow, and even straw will float like a ship. If
You put the cup in place that would be submerged. So
Besides, if the wind is less then he would not be able to spread
its giant wings. Only with the height of ninety thousand
miles, just created an ideal height to be able to accommodate Pung.
Pung was finally able to begin the journey importance.

When a Cicada (like crickets) heard the story, he
said the pigeons, "If I could fly, I will
quickly settled on a pohonelm. Sometimes I can not reach
and instead fell back to the ground. However, I always make progress.
But why Pung should strive more duluuntuk could exceed
ninety thousand miles, and with that he did not create
any progress before starting perjalananya to the south. "

"When people are forced to go into the woods near the area
and will be back a few hours later, he did not need
apa2 preparing food. If you intend to go hundreds of
miles away, might have packed all night. And if
have to go thousands of miles, he had to prepare lunch for the three
moon. What can be understood Cicada and pigeons about it
it? Cicada have never felt the spring or fall because of
short age. "

Just as Pung who remained struggled to climb upwards without
slightest progress in reaching his destiny, although
booed by birds and other insects, he still flaps its wings
upward to the heights of the earth's atmosphere. While
Other small burung2 still busy talking about his stupidity, he
successfully spread its wings and fly very high without
difficulties to the south and finally arrive at the South Pole.

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Jian Yi Shi Li Pu Yi

Meaning if Indonesianized writing above is: "A journey of a thousand miles always dimulain the first step". Started is not an easy task, because there needs to be some consideration, konsekwensiyang thought to be faced and thus for the next step we melakakukan would be easier than the experience of the first steps and like it so.

How many steps have we swing? What is the problem we have faced? How often do we doubt it will move us? Many questions arise in the heart of this when we realize what we experience today.

A true mountain climbers have never looked down to reach the top of the mountain, a sprinter oada focus finish line. Possible to achieve everything that is expected, sometimes we must go through a steep valley, the sharp gravel, paris that makes us sometimes fall stumbling seok or bleeding, but we've diasaat dare to move, we must keep stepping in achieving a goal.

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A thousand miles must begin with one step, never stop, forward and never give up face everything we have to face and thus we unknowingly, we have been getting closer to the goal that we wish to accomplish and we will be stronger because we have been through all things that make us never slip or fall is an experience that always makes us more cautious for the next step is not stopped.

Do not see the 'goal' is the end of a journey but the destination made as part of the trip so we will continue to have the spirit to get to the destination for our goals without ever stopping. Thus also the victory after victory will be achieved. A thousand miles always begins with one step! Do not dream has reached thousands of miles if we do not get up to begin the first step. Keep the spirit friends, face the future, to achieve the goal of the journey, you are a WINNER.
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The story of Salt and Lake

One time, there lived a wise old man. On one morning, there came a young man who was overwhelmed with many problems. Unsteady pace and intricate face. The young man, it looks like people are not happy.

The young man told him all her problems. A wise old man listened attentively. He then took a handful of salt and a glass of water. The inclusion of salt into a glass and stir gently. "Try, drink this, and tell me how it feels," said the old man.

"Asin. Asin once," replied the guest, as he spat aside.

The old man smiled a little to hear the answer. He then took the boy to the edge of the lake near where he lived. Arriving at the edge of the lake, old man throw a handful of salt into the lake. With a piece of wood, lake water stirred. "Try, take water from this pond, and drink." When the young man had finished drinking water, he asked, "How does it feel?"
"Fresh," said the young man.
"Do you feel the salt in the water?" He asked again.
"No," replied the young man.

The old man gently patted the young man. "Young man, listen. Bitterness of life, is like a handful of salt, no more and no less. Kutaburkan amount of salt the same, but the taste of water that make you feel different. Likewise, the bitterness of failure, we feel in this life, will depend of container that we have. bitterness that will be based from feeling where we put everything. It all depends on our hearts. So, when you feel the bitterness and failure in life, there's only one thing you can do. Lapangkanlah chest accept all . Luaskanlah your heart to hold any bitterness. "

He continues his advice. "Your heart is the container. Your feelings are there. Kalbumu is where you hold everything. So do not make your heart is like glass, make like a pond that could reduce any bitterness and turn it into the freshness and happiness."

/ * To pursue success, sometimes we will experience bitterness. We dream of success will not come to us if we continue to live in bitterness and does not vacate the heart. Lapangkanlah our hearts, thank bitterness, and continue to pursue success

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Story marble stone

Once there is a museum of the floor is made of beautiful marble. In the middle of the room museum displays a marble statue of a very large also. Many people come from all over the world to admire the beauty of the marble statue. One night, the marble floors to the marble statue said. Marble floor: "O marble statue, life is really not fair. It's not fair! Why are people from all over the world came here to trample me but they admire you? It's not fair!"

Marble statue: "Oh my friend, good marble floor. Do you remember that we are actually derived from the same rock?"

Marble floor: "Of course, that's why I'm getting to feel injustice. We come from the same rock, but now we receive different treatment. It's not fair!"

Marble statue: "Then if you still remember when one day a sculptor came and tried to sculpt yourself, but you were rejected and destroyed equipment chisel?"

Marble floor: "Yes, of course I still remember. I really hate that sculptor. How can she bear to use the chisel so to hurt me. It hurts!"

Marble statue: "You're right! Carvers could not carve it yourself at all because you refuse."

Marble floor: "So?"

Marble statue: "When he decided to not continue work on yourself, and then he tried to carve my body. At that moment I knew through his work I would be something completely different. I do not reject the chisel equipment into shape. I'm trying to keep pain is incredible. "

Marble floor: "Mmmmmm ...."

Marble statue: "Dear friend, this is the price we pay to everything in life. When you decide to give up, you can not blame anyone for what happened to you now."

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The story of the little frog

No life lessons. 1

One day there was a bunch of tiny frogs who held a race. The goal is to reach the top of a very high tower.

The audience gathered around the tower to watch the race and gave encouragement to the participants ...

The race begins ...

None benar2 audience believe that small katak2 be able to reach the top of the tower.

The audience cheered

"Oh, way too sulitttt!! They will NEVER get to the top. "

"There is no chance to succeed ... the tower is too high ...!!
Small Katak2 start falling. One by one ... ... Except for those who keep the spirit up the tower slowly higher and higher ... ..
The audience kept cheering
"Too hard! No one will succeed! "
Many more small frogs tired and gave up ... ... But there is ONE who continue to higher and higher ... He will not give up!
Finally, others have surrendered to climb the tower. Except for one tiny frog who has been trying hard to be the only one who managed to reach the top! ALL other small frogs want to know how the frog can do?
One participant asked how a frog found the strength to reach the goal?
Apparently ...
The frog who became the winner was deaf!!
Wise words from this story is:
Never heard of others who have a negative tendency or pessimistic ... because they take most of your dreams and keep him away from you.
Always think that there kata2 magical. Because everything you hear and you read can affect your behavior!
Stay always .... POSITIVE!
Be deaf when people say to you that YOU can not reach ambition!
Always think: I can do this!
Provide motivation to your friends! Because a good friend is a friend who can give each other motivation to each other.

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Are You a "candidate" Winner?

In success, there are four levels of achievement, the first is the winner this time, those who already know what they want, and take action in focus to reach their goals.

The last level is the level of achievement of those who have not realized their potential.

Between the two levels above the level of potential winners is they who have set their goals and begin to focus on their actions.

Another level is the level of expectation winning candidate, they are not fully in order to reach success. They may have been through a tough journey and deviated from the goal. Perhaps also those who have self-concepts that need to be repaired.

Are you a potential winner? You'll know if you are a potential winner. You will feel great passion to pursue what you want. One thing that can stop you is what you believe.

You may also have discovered the power of relationships with potential winners and winners. There's a reason why we are judged by who we're together because they memebentuk our character in life.

You may be're building your way in business or thinking about it seriously. This is one impression of a winner. If you do so, you are on the right track.

Are you a potential winner?

A potential winner very easily recognizable. They are always looking for. They read self-improvement books, seminars motivation, buying and listening to a tape, CD or video that provides inspiration, and believe that sooner or later they will create their dream life.

They realized the hidden talents and potential they have, but have not found a way how to use it.

You are a potential winner, if you will feel great passion to pursue what you want.

Are you a candidate of hope winner?

You can change from a potential winner hopes to be a winner. This is only determined by your actions.

One action that you can do is change. Out of your comfort zone and do something to bring your life to a level better achievement.

Growth always involves change. And frankly, change is not something pleasant. Changed from mere "theory" breakthrough life into "action" would be very very unpleasant.

Try to identify one reason why you can not overcome your fears. Remind yourself why you want to change. Often the desire to avoid suffering can be a very powerful reason than simply trying to change. Use a very strong reason to overcome your fears and worries.

Feel yourself at the last level?

Do you find yourself at the last level? You must be mistaken. You can not read this article till here if you are in the last level. At least you want to succeed.

If you are tired, tired and frustrated with your life, you probably are on the path of change. This is the beginning when you turn into a potential winner of hope.

There's something inside you that tells you that there are so many opportunities out there, push yourself to achieve your potential and use more.

It's time to enter into the prospective winner. Do something and be like what you want!

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Golf and Life, A Story of Your Success

We are preparing to make the tee shot on the 10th hole into a par 4.

"Duh! 've Played all day and just kept par. "

You stick your golf swing, the ball flying to the left, a little bit on the path that you want but eventually widened too far. Unfortunately, the ball bounced into the rough direction.

"I now supposed to hit 100-yards to the green, otherwise I have to fight even tougher for par on this hole."

You hit the world-class skills, such as Tiger Woods. The ball flew beautifully, but only through the green and fell in behind the green.

Wow! Even though the ball had bounced badly toward the rough and a very good shot out of the rough, you still have to struggle to hit the ball into the hole outside the green with a distance of about 40 feet. You took a deep breath, calm yourself for a minute and hit the ball softly toward the hole.

"Wow! The ball rolled smoothly with sufficient speed. Should be entered here. "

The ball rolled toward the hole but just play the hole and deviated less than 4 feet to the left.

"Ouch! Hardly! "

"Madness! Tee shot 300 yards so far, a bad bounce into the rough, solid blows to the hole but a little off the mark as far as 40 yards and do the best putt I could still fail, too. "

You finally did and managed to putt the ball into the hole. Par! Good enough but you really disappointed because you feel you should get better.

Believe it or not, you are similar to the golfers in this story. There was a time in our lives where we are trying very hard, but things happen not as we want. Stay survive. There was a time, everything will be as you want. You'll get a lot more in just a few months than you earn your lifetime. The time will come soon when your tee shot beyond 20 yards and straight. You approach the blow-pin is always high even though the wind is not good. And the hole always seems to suck the ball into the hole even if you hit from far away. Time will come. The time has arrived. It's time to fly like Birdie.

cat:

tee shot: the first punch.

rough: the area on a golf course which is usually not flat, and the grass is high enough.

green: regions where there are holes.

par: normal number of strokes in the hole.

Birdie: the number of strokes less than the normal one.

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The Road to Success - Discover and Fulfill Needs

SUCCESS ... .. !?
Do you think that you mean as a success? If I may conclude, we all agree that a successful means we achieve what we have to target (vision), both in terms of education, career, finances, couples, and every aspect of our lives. We judged a success if we can finish with either education or have jobs that we think is good, or even if we succeed in building a harmonious family. Of course, everything we've targeted from the beginning right?

FIND THE NEED THEN Fill it ...
... .. What have been their needs ... .. Answer NEEDS THEM. People who are hungry will not be possible to find a piece of bread to relieve his thirst is not it? So, give them a glass of water, and they will come to you. People do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. All of this is the problem of the relationship.

HOW TO DO IT .... ?
What matters is that we often do not know where to begin to develop a good relationship. What can we do to be able to develop a good relationship ...?

We often do not know where to begin to develop a good relationship.

1. Understanding People
The first quality of a person who can establish rapport with others is to understand the feelings and thoughts of others.

They like to feel special, then give a sincere compliment.
They want the next day better, then give them hope.
They are selfish, then dahulukanlah their interests.
They could fall emotionally, then give encouragement to them.

By becoming aware of the truth - the truth is, we must be able to treat others as individuals. Ability at each - each person, understood, and a relationship with him is a major factor in successful relationships with others.

2. Loving Others
We must have empathy for others and find out the best in people ... not the worst ... to be really - really caring for others. We can not really - really answer the needs of someone, if we do not really - really love that person. Albert Einstein once said, "The situation we are in this world is strange. But from the viewpoint of life, there is one thing we know: that humans are on earth for the sake of other humans. "

3. Helping Others
Someone will be respectful to the people who put their own interests. If your focus is what you can give to others rather than what you can get from them, they will love and respect to you - and all this will create a good basis to build relationships

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Law

Law 80/20 - What's That?
If there is one law governing the happiness and achievement in life on this earth, that Law 80/20.

Law 80/20 or Pareto's Law discovered in 1897 by an Italian economist named Vilfredo Pareto when he was looking for patterns of wealth and income in the UK.

What he found was that 80 percent of the wealth owned and enjoyed by only 20 percent of the population. It was not only in England but it is true also in various countries and for any time.

This law also holds true today and in all the activities we do, whether it is business or our work.

For example: 80 percent of the results we have obtained from the 20 percent of our business. Similarly, 80 percent of our revenues or profits generated from business or 20 percent of our sales.

Law 80/20 also proved true in our personal achievements and our happiness.

Many people never count their achievements or seek know what makes them happy. If they did, surely they will realize that only a few things that affect their happiness. They also will realize that only a fraction of what they did which was the most giving of their achievements.

You can apply the 80/20 law is in your life. Feel free to write whatever achievements you have gained, and write all the things that has really helped you meet that achievement. If you honestly look at what you have written, you will meilhat that only the consistent efforts continuously to the little things that give you the greatest results.

Apparently only a few steps, a small but effective, which gives you achievements. You will continue to find this all your life when you notice it. What do you call it hard work may be effective measures with a lot of steps that are not effective.

Is the source of your happiness? Anything that can make you happy and what really makes you very, very happy? You'll be amazed there were only a few things that 'donate' your happiness. In other words, 20 percent of the things that make you happy to give 80 percent of your happiness.

Now that you know the 80/20 law is, if you spend your time more in the things that give you achievement or happiness, you will multiply the results you achieve.

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Respecting Others


Narrated, in a simple farewell party of a director's resignation. Held a session of the event delivery messages, impressions, and criticism from subordinates to his former boss who soon will retire from the company.

Because of limited time, these opportunities are welcome expressed in written form. Among the praise and the impression given, selected and framed for enshrined then read at the event, which is a note written in the style of graffiti from an office boy who had worked long enough in the company.

He wrote everything in capital letters as follows, "Dear Mr. Director. Thank you for you have uttered the word" help ", every time you give the real task is my responsibility. Director Thank you because you have to say" sorry ", when you reprimanded, warned and tried to tell every mistake that has been done because you want me to turn it into goodness.

Thank you Mr. Director because you always say "thank you" to me over the little things I have done for love Bapak.Terima director for all the awards to small people like me so I can keep working with the best, with the head straight, without feeling demeaned and diminished. And ever the father is the director for me. Thank you once again. May God bless the street where Mr. Director was. Amen. "

After a moment of silence enveloped the room, simultaneously echoing applause filled the room. Secretly director wiped tears puddle in the corner of his old eyes, touched by his expression of an office boy's heart who has been faithfully serving the needs of the entire contents of the office.

Director never thought at all that the attitudes and words that have been carried out, which he said was so simple and mundane, it can give meaning to the little people like the office boy is. The election made it to immortalized, because the entire contents of the office agreed and agreed that the example and leadership of their director will continue as the company's culture.



Dear reader,

Three words "thank you, sorry, and please" is a sentence that is very simple but has a positive impact. But why the words were sometimes very difficult to pronounce? Actually indirectly have shown civility and greatness of soul of the human figure who said it. Moreover, spoken by a leader to his subordinate.

The leader is not just command and control, but rather on the exemplary manner in a way of thinking, speech, and actions that can guide, nurture, and develop a lead so as to create synergies in achieving common goals.

Certainly for anyone to say we need to get used short words such as thanks, forgiveness, and help wherever, whenever, and with anyone we are related. By being able to appreciate other people at least we have our own self respect.

Nb:

Once again, is keep us from being arrogant, disparaging people!

Help others wherever we are, respect them, respect them as they respect us!

Surely we will be happy life!!

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Secrets of Success

In the past, people did not hesitate to appoint someone or blame someone for the cause of their failure or ketidaksuksesan. Main Masalh is that they do not have the mirror and realized that the cause is their own. At that time there were two groups of people, the successful and unsuccessful alias failed. We have proved there is a third group that wants to succeed and they realize that they must change in order to achieve success. This is your moment. If not you, surely you will not be reading this article till here.

Success Secret .... Is it?

The answer is ....

Find a mentor or coach and learn all what you can learn from them!

Than you throw a lot of money to buy lots of books, the best is to find a mentor who has proven successful and you'll get the best results rather than just learning from books.

Remember, a little action that provides the maximum results. Compare with 1000 steps you walk and spent year after year to reach success. You only need to take one step and a little time to So you can reach success. You learn from successful people and you do not need to repeat their mistakes.

This is your shortcut to their success. No book or anything that can bring you achieve success so quickly.

So, what are you waiting? Are you ready for meloompat to success and break through any obstacles you? Find your mentor, someone who has proven successful in your field, learn everything from him, do not do the same mistake as he and you will be SUCCESS!

idol win the hearts of many men temptation is for a man's pride. if the relationship goes well, the next step is to bring live together in the palace of dreams.

sense of worry and fear of rejection naturally arises when you want to express the intention to propose. a good idea to listen to the secrets of success applying the idol himself, as quoted AskMen:

The main parental consent

The main thing in the step up to the wedding were the parents. wedding trip will be easier with the blessing of parents. if the parent gives his beloved golden opportunity to get the fruit of his heart, no need to wait any longer and start acting. begin by informing parents about the plan first proposed to her and then you express your desire to build the ark with her household.

ring as a special surprise

ring binder is a symbol of love. idol surprise your heart with a special way in special moments. for example, express your desire to marry her when she was a romantic dinner or while enjoying the sunset on the beach. this way, she'll feel special. great expectations, he would think long and immediately provide an answer.

convincing body language

parent's blessing in hand, ring proposal was prepared, and all other physical readiness was okay, but there's one important thing that you should not neglect. you must prepare mentally when going to propose. a firm voice and body language, such as smiles and eye contact will make the convincing he was sure that you are the prince of dreams that he had been looking for.

so, what are you waiting? Your actions immediately embarked for the proposed

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Meaning of Life


How old are you? 25 years, 35 years, 45 years or even 60 years ... How long have you had through your life? How long before the rest of your time to go through life? No one knows when we end this life.

The sun rises and chickens crowing signifies morning has arrived. Time for us prepare for the activity, as an employee, as a student, as a professional, etc.. We start a new day. Breakdown of the road makes us even more tense living. Late to the office, it's normal. Jobs pile up, the task of the boss who makes his head dizzy, his subordinates are not satisfactory, and many of the problems we face have to work in the office.

Imperceptibly, noon to pick up ... "Time for a break .. eat .." Stomach hunger, making people hard to think. The brain seemed to dead end. Jobs become increasingly hard to solve. The sun was right above his head. Really hot today ...

Finally a break over, time to go back to work ... My stomach was full, so we can not work even sleepy spirit. Ouch but still a lot kok job unfinished. Start again we work, work and continue working until the end visible in the west ...

The sun had smiled and said goodbye. Dark began to pick up. So tired today. Now a traffic jam. When will I get home. Body aching, and the body feels sticky. Its delicious warm water bath later. Fresh Fresh ...

There is a race car quickly in order to get home soon, and there are city buses running after rushing to get home. Very dynamic life.

Dinner time arrived. The wife or mother may have been preparing us our favorite foods. "Ohh .. no chicken soup". "My mother made soup meat is delicious". Husband praises his wife's cooking, or the child's mother praised the cooking. That's also what we often do.

.. After dinner, relax while watching TV. Not feel the quietness of the night has arrived. Tired of running activity today, makes us sleep soundly. Fell asleep again until the morning to pick up and start a new day again.

.. Ya life like that is life in the eyes of most people. Wake up, shower, work, eat, and sleep is life.

If our view about the meaning of life is limited, we may be no different from animals who are satisfied with breathing, eating, drinking, doing routine activities, sleep. Day or night is the same. Only routine ... until finally meet death. Indeed it is the life but not life in the broadest sense.

As human beings we obviously have differences in running life. Life is not just a routine.

Life is a chance for us to devote ourselves to the potential of others.
Life is a chance for us to share the joys and sorrows with the people we care about.
Life is a chance for us to get to know other people.
Life is a chance for us to serve all mankind.
Life is a chance for us to love our spouse, parents
we, brothers, and love our neighbor.
Life is a chance for us to learn and keep learning about the meaning of life.
Life is a chance for us to always give thanks to the Almighty ..
Life is ... etc..

So many lives could we live. How many years you have been through your life? How many years you have lived the life of your routine? Will the rest of your time before his death you only sacrifice for a routine?

We do not know when death will come, maybe 5 years, 1 year maybe more, maybe another month, maybe tomorrow, or maybe 1 minute longer.

Only God knows ...

Look around you ... there are few people who need us. They waited for our presence. They are waiting for our support. Parents, siblings, spouses, children, friends and fellow ... ... And God is faithful waiting thanksgiving from our lips.

Thank Him every moment that we are still committed to this life. Make this into a life of worship.

Welcome to live a higher quality.

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The strength of a block of Hope.


Previously, there was a fairly successful businessman in the city
it. When her husband fell ill, one by one manufacturer
they are sold. Drained their wealth to various fees
treatment. Until they have to move to the suburbs
and open a simple restaurant. The husband had been
no. A few years later, the diner had to be
changed way to stall a smaller
the market. After a long time not heard from him, now
every night was assisted by his wife and children
law lesehan selling mats spread on the square
city. Grandson had a few. People still
know the past of abundance. However, he did not
loss of a brave smile when serving the customers.
O mother, how are you so strong?

"Hope nak! Do not lose hope. Not a
world teacher had said, because a mother harapanlah
breastfeeding her child. Because we plant a tree harapanlah
though we knew we had not had time to gather the fruits of
ripe years later. Once you lose
hope, you lose all your strength to deal with
world ".

 
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