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Friday, November 13, 2009

Once, a man out of his yard, walking aimlessly in despair. He was unemployed for a long time. Financial condition messy family. While busy neighbors filled the house with luxury goods, he is still struggling to figure out how to meet basic needs of food and clothing their families.

Her children had not been bought clothes, his wife often angry at not being able to buy goods worth households. The man was bursting with this condition, and he was not convinced that the trip times the program will bring good fortune, the find a job.

When the man down the street was deserted, a sudden leg
bump something. Because he was curious bent and picked it up.
"Uh, just an ancient coin that was dented," he grumbled disappointed. Even so he took the coin to a bank.

"We recommend that you take the coin in it to the collector of ancient money," said the teller advised. The man followed the advice Itupun the teller, bringing the coin kekolektor. Fortunately, the collectors value coins worth 30 dollars.

So much, he began to think what would he do with this windfall. When passing a hardware store, he saw several pieces of wood on sale. He could make some shelves for his wife because his wife had said they had no place to store pots and jars. After buying 30 dollars worth of timber, the timber he was carrying and headed home.

Along the way he passed the shop of a furniture maker. Eyes
garage owner has been trained to see the wood he carried.
The wood is beautiful, good color, and renowned quality. Incidentally at that time there was an order furniture. He offered to pay some 100 dollars to him.
Looked in doubt in the eyes of man, but was assured and artisans can offer a ready-made furniture to choose him. Incidentally there was a wardrobe that would like his wife. She traded timber and borrow a cart to carry the cabinet. He was soon brought him home.

Along the way he passed a new housing. A woman who was decorating her new house looked out the window and saw the man pushing a cart containing a beautiful cabinet. The women lured and offered at a price of 200 dollars. When he appeared in doubt, the woman raised her offer to be 250 dollars. Man Itupun agree. Then return the cart to the craftsmen and went home.

In the village the door he paused for a moment and wanted to make sure the money he received. He reached into his pocket and counted the sheets worth 250 dollars. At that moment a robber out of the bushes, brandishing knives, seized the money, then fled.

The man's wife happened to look and ran toward him and said, "What happened? You're fine right? What was taken by the robbers? "

The man shrugged and said, "Oh, it's nothing. Only a dented coin that I found this morning ".

When we realized we never had any, why should drown in excessive pain?

The following story, adapted from the work of The Healing Stories Burns GW.

A pair of Sports Shoes


Being "equal and similar" with other teens is the desire of all
adolescents.

I remember well how as a teenager in 1963 I
feel should have the latest sports shoes that are "in".

The problem, last month I've just bought a pair of leather shoes.

But, really sports shoes in fashion, so I came
the father asked for help.

"I need a little money for sports shoes", I said one evening in
garage where my father worked as a mechanic.

"Willie" father seemed surprised.

"New shoes a month old, but Why do you need the shoes now
new? "

"Every person wearing sneakers yah!"

"It may be a son, but it is not easy to make dad
pay for sports shoes "

Salaries small father and often not enough to meet the daily needs
day.

"Daddy, I look like a dorky wearing shoes of this type" I said,
refers to the new oxford shoes.

Dad looked in in the eye.

Then he replied, "Look, you wear these shoes one day
lagi.Besok, at school, notice all the shoes from your friends. If
after school you still believe that the most worn shoes
shoes than your pal friend, the father will cut your mother and spending money
buy a pair of sports shoes "

I am happy to go to school, the next morning, full of confidence
that day was my last day of oxford shoes are mamakai
This outdated.

I do what I tell my father did, but not, I
tell me what I look carefully.

Brown shoes, black shoes, tennis shoes worn, all the
center of attention.

In the evening, I have the vocabulary in my memory of how
many friends at school who also was not wearing sports shoes,
even shoes - shoes broken, perforated, and other open another form
nearing extinction as a means of protecting the foot.

But many also wore a handsome sports shoes, which always
stylish seconds ticking when the owner proudly menghentakkannya
powerful.

After school ended, I walked quickly to the garage where my father worked.
I am almost sure that next Monday I will go to groups that
are "in"

Every time I stamped my heel on the road, I imagine, have been
sports shoes my dream.

Workshop was very quiet. The voice that sounded just the clink-clink
metal from under an old chevy made in 1956.

The air smelled of oil, but the smell seems to me, great.

Only one customer was waiting for my father who was struggling in the under
old chevy.

"Mr. Alva" I asked the customer who is waiting, "still
long? "

"I do not know Will. You know the nature of your father. He was unpacking gear, but
when he got the other part is wrong, he will
finish well. "

I leaned on the gray car.

What can I saw was a pair of legs sticking out dad
from under the car.

With a flick larvae chevy taillights, unconsciously I
at the foot of the father.

Work trousers navy blue, dull and sticky hit by oil, shabby
too.

Shoes, old white .... ah .... not a young black ... ..., and it
really crappy, as is the shoe of a mechanic.

Shoes are not left platform, and the right still has a piece
small thin skin, which formerly named sol. In the end, a row of staples
both bit tight skin tight, preventing her toes
peeked out. Beriap riap shoelaces, and a hole
shows some of her little finger bandaged cotton shirt.

"It's home son? "Father out from under the car.

"Yes sir" I said.

"You do what I tell you today?"

"Yes sir"

"Well, what do you say?" She looked at me, as if he knew what would I
say.

"I still like sports shoes" I said firmly, and tried a half
dead to not look at the father's shoes.

"Then, my father had to cut your mother's shopping money ... .."

"Why not go and buy it now?" And the father pulled out
a $ 10. and fishing for coins to pay 30 cents
3% sales tax.

I took the money and immediately went to the mall, two blocks
from the garage where my father worked.

In front of a window, I stopped to see if the shoe sportku
still on display there. Still! $ 9.95.

But my money would not be enough if I have to buy nail nails will
nailed to the soles and the click clack noise handsome.

I think, to run to the house and asked for funding from mama, because
not be returned to his father and asked for its shortcomings.

By the time I thought of my father, his old shoes seem to imagine
across both eyes.

Kebututannya obviously, the ragged side camping, nails nails
has peeked out and a line of staples commonly used to
pinch of paper.

Worn leather shoes he wore to his family.

At the time the biting winter, wearing the same shoes
through the cold streets, toward the car that had stalled the car.

But my father never complained.

It occurred to me, how many items it should be required
father, but does not have, only my eyes to get what
my desire.

And luxury sneakers behind glass in front etelase
began to fade.

What would it be fathers like me.

What kind of shoes are now worn, when my father acted like I
be.

I went into the shoe store.

A large rack plastered magnificent, full of sports shoes that contain it
cool.

Beside him, there is a different shelf, with sebingkai writing "on sale
big. 50% discount ".

Under the frame lying semodel shoes shoes shoes father, a
younger generation, of course.

My mind is playing ping pong. At first father battered shoes.

And now the new shoes. Thoughts about: the "ins" and in step with
other teenagers at school.

And then the thought of my father, .... has been defeated.

I take size 42 shoes from the shelves berdiscount.

Immediately walked toward the counter, plus tax, be the number
$ 6.13.

I returned to the garage and putting new shoes on the chair's father in
car.

I get the father and return the remaining change.

"I think the price is $ 9.95" said the father.

"Sale" I said curtly.

I grabbed a broom, and began helping his father clean the garage.

At five o'clock, he signaled that the garage should be closed and we had to
home.

Daddy held a shoe box when we got in the car.

When he opened the box, he could only look without saying
word.

He looked at the shoes for long, then to me.

"I think you buy sports shoes", he said quietly.

"Actually my father, ... but .... I was unable to continue.

How should I explain that I really wanted to be
like father?

And when I grow up, I really wanted to be like
These good people, which God gave to me as my father.

Dad put his hand on my shoulder, and we looked at each other for
moment.

There are no words to say the word. Dad started the car, and we
home.

Thank God, because you have given me a good father and
responsible.

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Also motivation fate determinants

In ancient times there was a general of ancient China who have
duty to lead the troops against an enemy whose numbers ten times
more. Hearing condition unequal enemy, the soldiers
unperturbed case will suffer defeat.
On the way into battle, General was stopped at an altar
monastery. He was praying and praying for guidance of the gods. While
soldiers waiting outside the monastery with anticipation. Soon
later, the General out of the monastery.

He shouted at the troops, "We have received instructions from the
the sky. "Then he pulled out a gold coin from his pocket royal symbols. While
holding the coin into the air, he said, "Now, we see what the
fate. Let us hold a toss. When the head appeared, then we will
win. But when the tail comes up, we will lose. Our lives depend
to fate. "
Gen. then tossed the gold coin into the air. Gold coin spinning
in the air. Then tumbling on the ground. The whole army watch
what emerges. After a long rolled around, the coin
stopped. And what emerges is HEAD. Cash entire army shout
fun. "Hooray ..! We will win. Fate on our side, Let's Assault
and destroy the enemy. The victory was certain. "
General eagerly and troops moved into battle.
Fierce battle with. It turned out that with confidence and determination
which eventually become strong enemy countless defeated.
Generals and the troops really happy. A soldier said,
"It's the will of heaven, then no one can change destiny."
Arriving in the capital they were greeted by the whole population festive. King
amazed to hear stories that dashyat war. He asked
in the general how he was able to rekindle the spirit of his troops until
so brave. The General then handed his gold coins in
King, saying, "Your Majesty, this is what gives them good luck."
King received a gold coin and observing that both sides were
Picture: HEAD ..!

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Positive Thinking, Negative Thinking, & Right Thinking

"Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment." ~ Lao Tzu

We provide in-house company Traning in pulp and paper producer's second-largest in the world, based in Kerinci, Riau, recently, a participant who asked. "Sir, what is the basis for determining which in positive thinking and what is in negative thinking?"

Honestly, I was quite surprised to get a question like this. Not because I do not know the answer. However, this was the first time I have to think deeply about the essence of positive thinking and negative thinking. So far, we always believed and believe that positive thinking is the thought that "positive" and "beneficial" for us. While the negative thinking negative thoughts and self harm us. We agrees this is because of this that we learn from a variety of popular public speaker, book self-improvement books, and from a variety of seminars or workshops.

After a pause to think my last answer as I write the above paragraph: "Positive thinking is a useful thoughts while negative thoughts are thoughts of self harm us".

My answer seemed to be true. But I realized that the answer I gave was incomplete. There is encouragement in my heart to deepen my analysis of the answers I give.

At night, while alone in a hotel room, I sat down and thought about the deep questions of participants this afternoon, "What are the basis for determining which in positive thinking and what is in negative thinking?"

As I ponder this question I immediately thought of the many events that I have experienced in my life. I've also been practicing positive thinking. My friends too. I am reminded of an article I wrote titled "Danger Positive Thinking" which had become controversial.

It turned out that positive thinking alone is not enough to be successful. Positive thinking and negative thinking is still influenced by the perception and keterbatassan our own mindset. What we believe to be something positive was not necessarily positive. Could be, we feel or believe these positive thoughts because, based on the assumption or the wrong paradigm, which is still influenced by our belief system, which we believe to be true. So we feel have a positive thinking or positive thinking. And not necessarily what we do is positive thinking.

We must move from negative thinking into positive thinking and finally reach right thinking. Why right thinking? Right thinking is knowing who our true self, what our destiny is the highest, what our life's mission in this world, and aligning himself with the eternal laws that govern the universe. Right thinking also means that we think in terms of the Truth and the basis of all thought processes and other levels.

Right thinking comes from the awareness of the truth or from the actual reality of every situation we face. Right thinking enables us to see things as they are, regardless of the emotions that we be neutral.

Maybe get here you feel confused? Ok, I give you an example. For example there are those who insult us. What do we do? If negative thinking we would be furious. The more our emotions raged the more negative we become. Emotions are triggered by negative thinking is like the gasoline that poured into the flames. We blame the people who have insulted us. Anyway, this person is wrong, period.

We, usually, will try to overcome this by using positive thinking. What do we do? We try to think positive, trying to forgive, try to understand, to reframing, trying to control our emotions, trying to find positive things from this incident.

What about the right thinking? With the right thinking we seek the truth of what we experience. We must go beyond our belief system to be able to use the right thinking. Ask yourself, "What truth is contained in this incident?"

When we get a response from our consciences and our actions based on the answers we get it at that time we have used the right thinking.

Right thinking means that we realize fully that we are not our thoughts. We are moving our minds. We create the reality of our lives. We are responsible for everything that we experience, it is good or bad.

When someone insults us, whether it was true that "we" are insulted? Try to ask ourselves honestly. "Actually, who's been insulted? Is it true I insulted? Which part of me that feels insulted?"

If we use thinking right then we realized that we really do not be insulted. No one can insult us. What actually happens is that we have given meaning to the event, based on assumptions, perceptions, experiences living in the past, belief system, and our values, which resulted in the emergence of negative emotions. Eleanor Roosevelt with a very wise man said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

OK, you might say, "Lha, but we're still offended by the insult." If you still insist with this opinion, fine, let me ask you one question to you, "Who is offended or feels insulted? Me? I? I'm the one? Which part of me is offended?"

If we are honest then the actual "hit" is how we feel. The next question is, "Are we the same feelings with us? Are our feelings is ourselves?" Of course not. Feelings, the same as the mind, will always arise and sink, not eternal, and certainly not ourselves. []

Source: Positive Thinking, Negative Thinking, & Right Thinking by Adi W. Gunawan, better known as the Re-Educator and Mind Navigator, is a public speaker and trainer who has spoken in various major cities in and outside the country.

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Work Hard, Until When?


Technology makes all the people I know work harder and longer. - Wareen Bennis

"What is the meaning of hard work for you?" I asked some friends. "Hard work means coming to work most mornings and go home most nights, but remain healthy and optimistic" Didi said the businessman. "Work that relies on self power, especially the physical, to achieve a goal or desired outcome," said Elly college lecturer. "The hard work is required to achieve maximum results," said the soldier Wawan. "The way the work which must pass before people are able to work with smart and creative. People can not find intelligent ways if he had never worked hard," explained the Court employees.

***

Have you ever counted how many hours is usually the time you have used to work for a living to live in a week? The answer may vary, depending on the type of job or profession that you run. Try to imagine the following professions: lawyers, doctors, notaries, pilots, judges, prosecutors, farmers, traders, managers / ekskutif, consultants, advertising models, actors and soap operas. Which among those who think you work hard to support most of his life? What about the private employees and civil servants in general? Who hours on average per week the longest? What about school teachers, factory workers, porters, and workers at the centers of modern spending on their way home after 9 pm? Which is the most sweat?

There is the assumption that people who have to work more than 45 hours per week is the blue-collar workers who had learned. They work long hours, and work processes rely more on physical skills / muscles, so that all minimum wages. They are educated, professionals and the leading university graduate who became managers at a young age, are people who should have a short working time of being able to work smarter. Especially with the development of information technology is very impressive in the last decade, the group learned that the brain works is assumed to rely on working time would require a relatively minimum, less than 40 hours per week. Because, not people who are smart with the latest technological devices should not have to work hard as their ancestors (and our) first?

The problem is, our lives at school and then watch another reality. As BusinessWeek reported last October 2005 issue, in the American context of the "slave labor" was pretty amazing. More than 31% of workers male college graduates in the United States commonly work 50 hours or more a week in office, up from 22% in 1980, when information technology has not advanced as today. National Sleep Foundation reported that approximately 40% of American adults sleep less than 7 hours on weekdays. And since the 1926 Henry Ford had pioneered work five days a week, and since 1970 in the United States applies work time 40 hours a week. Then how to explain the tendency of educated American workers today who actually spent time working as factory workers in the 19th century, the average work 60 hours per week?

American workers are not alone. In China, the senior managers with U.S. $ 2000 income --- the exchange rate USD 9500, - means USD 19 million a month --- generally work 6O hours, six days a week. Although approximately 20 hours including overtime counted, but they do not get the additional wages of the extra work. Generally, hard workers were admitted had no choice but to stay late and thought it was it was their duty, so do not need to pay extra. Mentioned that at least three cities in China, 51% of people who work overtime during the day did not receive additional wages --- a thing that does not happen to their counterparts in Japan and South Korea. In the case in China's Labor Law has set hours of work 44 hours a week, within five working days, with two weeks annual leave, regular holidays, and overtime wage of at least one-half times the normal wage. The fact that such rules could not stem the growth of the "slave labor" in the country bamboo curtain. Only civil servants, such as school teachers, who spent 40 hours a week working with earnings of about U.S. $ 200 a month.

Another thing that is also interesting to be listened to is a report on the number of hours working woman in America and Europe are represented by 15 European Union countries. In 1984, the United States approximately 58% of women who spent a career working for more than 40 hours a week. The numbers increased in 2004 to around 62%. While in Europe, only about 36% of women who spent a career working in over 40 hours a week, in 1984. And in 2004 the number dropped to about 29%. Does that mean a career woman in America to work harder these days, while their counterparts in Europe have more time for other things outside of work? There was no further explanation about this. What is clear, in an interview, an intelligent American woman and phenomenal Oprah Winfrey once claimed that he used to work 14-15 hours a day, and if the only work 12 hours a day, he felt that something was missing that day.

Exposure data mentioned above shows that the assumption is not correct to say that only people who do not title and ***** are required to work hard to provide for his life. In fact, the most educated people in advanced countries like America, as well as those living in developing countries like China, just keep working hard to support her life. The assumption that with the advancement of information technology workers will be more relaxed in their work should also be sued again. Because in fact the most literate undergraduate and master the latest information technology alone does not work more relaxed than those who are relatively blind information technology.

So, work hard in the sense of work longer than the current work rules formally --- eg, five working days, 40 hours a week --- with the ability themselves to meet the needs and desires of everyday life, seems to have a tendency dammed difficult. More and more workers feel that's how it should be, especially when they want a career and a better life. The hard work seemed to be the only way. This is certainly not too need to question if we have jobs we enjoy, working in accordance with the best talent and our potential, and the work that gives the best results, both to us and to the community and the environment in which we serve. Like Oprah Winfrey who found the "place" is unique in this world, he might do his job without feeling the "worked".

The problem is, what if the work we have today is not the job we want? How about the work we have today is a job that does not fit with the talent and potential of our best? What if our current job is a job that does not foster a sense of pride in ourselves? What if our work is tekuni current job does not promise a better future? Of the last four questions I will answer with a question: how long you are willing to work hard for the type of work that bad?

Tabik Mahardika!

Source: Work Hard, Until When? by Andrias Harefa.

When the Emperor Reign With Mercy

First year of Zhenguan, Emperor Tang Taizong told the head
personnel kingdom, "Life of women in the court environment is very
concern. At the end of the Sui Dynasty, the royal palace too much
recruit women. Many of them live in the city
outer ring of the palace, where the emperor rarely visited; case where only
waste of money and energy. I do not like this situation. A
they do is clean the house. What else can they
do? Let them go home and get married. We can
save money and people will be happier and have a
his personal life. "After that, the royal palace sent home
more than 3,000 women.

Second year of Zhenguan, China
Undergoing a period of drought followed by severe famine.
Emperor Tang Taizong told his ministers, "The weather is
extreme is the result of the lack of De (virtue, manners) in
myself, I do not rule based on virtue.

Hence we are punished. What mistakes people have done so to accept this suffering? I heard people had sold her son for money. I feel so sad! "The Emperor then sent a minister Du Yan to investigate the drought-stricken areas. Minister Du Yan bought back these children with the Emperor's private money and return it to the parents of each.

In the seventh year of government Zhenguan, Xiangzhou Area Governor Zhang Gongjin died. The Emperor was very sad and he mourn some
times to express his feelings. Some officials send a note
to Caesar: "The book of Huai Yin-Yang said that someone
should not cry when mourning for bringing
misfortune. "Emperor Taizong replied," My relationship with
ministers like father and son. I feel sad from the heart.
How could I not cry? "After that, the Emperor began to cry again.

In the year to 19 era Zhenguan, Emperor Taizong himself led his troops
to beat Korea. When resting in Ding Zhou, several
soldiers stopped. Emperor Taizong was met with soldiers in
North Gate. One of them sick and can not follow
forces. Emperor Taizong invited him to rest on the side where
bed and asked where he was wounded. He also asked the physician in
Ding Zhou to treat the sick soldiers.

Because of compassion, all the generals and soldiers are willing to follow
war. On the way home, Taizong ordered his army
to provide a memorial to the bones of soldiers who
death, where they sacrificed animals buffalo, sheep and pigs. Emperor
himself came to the ceremony and tears. All military personnel
moved up to share tears.

After the ceremony, the parents of a fallen soldier said, "the Emperor cried at the funeral of our son. Now they can rest in peace. "When the army attacked the city of Emperor Taizong Baiyan in eastern Liaoning Province, General Li Simo got injured arrows. The emperor himself sucking wound General Li to throw out the death of blood. All the soldiers are very impressed.

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Bird fable Pung

"In the North China Sea," the beginning of this legend, "said
there is a fish called Kun which reach thousands of feet in length.
This giant fish
This can be transformed into a bird named seeokr Pung,
which also has thousands of meters long. When the flaps its wings
across the sky, the wings spread out like a cloud of
covering the sky. Flying back across the sky across the ocean:
toward the South Pole

"Pung giant flying into the South Sea, moving water with
extraordinary wings throughout the three thousand miles, but more
once he had to play the wind into a tornado until it reaches
height of ninety thousand miles.
It took six months to reach the height they will; only if
the bird is ready. Now, only the vast expanse of sky blue nan in
behind and not a single barrier in front of him, could Pung
fly to south freely.
How someone can compare the splendor of such a
morning mist, dust, and the creatures do not mean?

"If the water is shallow, would not be able to accommodate a ship
large, but pour water in a cup at a place that
shallow, and even straw will float like a ship. If
You put the cup in place that would be submerged. So
Besides, if the wind is less then he would not be able to spread
its giant wings. Only with the height of ninety thousand
miles, just created an ideal height to be able to accommodate Pung.
Pung was finally able to begin the journey importance.

When a Cicada (like crickets) heard the story, he
said the pigeons, "If I could fly, I will
quickly settled on a pohonelm. Sometimes I can not reach
and instead fell back to the ground. However, I always make progress.
But why Pung should strive more duluuntuk could exceed
ninety thousand miles, and with that he did not create
any progress before starting perjalananya to the south. "

"When people are forced to go into the woods near the area
and will be back a few hours later, he did not need
apa2 preparing food. If you intend to go hundreds of
miles away, might have packed all night. And if
have to go thousands of miles, he had to prepare lunch for the three
moon. What can be understood Cicada and pigeons about it
it? Cicada have never felt the spring or fall because of
short age. "

Just as Pung who remained struggled to climb upwards without
slightest progress in reaching his destiny, although
booed by birds and other insects, he still flaps its wings
upward to the heights of the earth's atmosphere. While
Other small burung2 still busy talking about his stupidity, he
successfully spread its wings and fly very high without
difficulties to the south and finally arrive at the South Pole.

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